Well, it was just 30 days ago and a few posts back that our beautiful daughter got her driver's license. I have been so scared - horrible thoughts racing through my mind if she doesn't call as soon as I think she should; we have her call everytime she gets somewhere. She has driven nearly every day, whether small errands for mom, school activities, or hanging out with friends. We hadn't bought her a car yet, because with only so much money, we had to make sure it was reliable and a very good deal for us. I probably also thought, that by not buying her a car, I had a little more control of her going all of the time.
Praise God she is ok - and I do have to keep telling myself that - she was hanging out with some friends, going a little too fast, hit some gravel, lost control, and hit a tree. All 3 of them seem to be fine and left the accident with their families - thank You, thank You, thank You, Lord. Coming up on the scene was quite overwhelming - there was a couple of ambulances, Fire & Rescue, a few highway patrol or sheriff vehicles - all with their lights flashing.
Right now, yes, we are thankful, but we are also very disappointed - not in the accident, they happen - it is just a car. Our daughter is a good girl and I don't want to give any impression that she is not - we are extremely proud of her; however, she was not exactly where she was supposed to be or with whom she was supposed to be with. She knows we like to know where she is and who she is with - we also don't just let her drive around without a specific cause since she is such a new driver. Don't get me wrong, I think we let her have fun - she will pick up a friend and they will go grab a bite to eat - but it is to there and back. Last night, because she wanted to do some hanging out and honestly didn't think we would let her - it was a church night, dark - she left out some of the details of her evening.
We need prayer please - that everyone is truly ok, no future repercussions (at least no negative ones), finances, insurance, edifying discipline, quick claim processing. I really don't know what all to ask for - I have never been in an accident that was my fault so I really don't know how this whole process is going to work with other people involved - and property (she also hit a fence).
I know this could have been much worse - I treasure my daughter - and it is not right a "suddenly" can change your whole life just like that.
It has been a great Thanksgiving week - I am very thankful for so much. I first want to say "Happy Birthday" to my incredible niece. She is going to be 11 years old tomorrow - unbelievable! She is so smart and very beautiful; full of fun, questions, and laughter. Happy Birthday, Sweet Girl - looking forward to our upcoming weekend together!
